Nerds guide to dating
As his partner, your job is to be his number one cheerleader.
Heavy-handed teasing will drive him back into his shell. There's nothing nerds enjoy more than a reasoned discussion.
Love him for who he is, and he will be a loyal partner.
I’ve been a self-identified nerd since I was 16, but I didn’t always date within my identity. Unless you’re cosplaying every week, I wouldn’t base a relationship on it. This comes out in trivia contests, coffee shop conversations and comment sections. Comic books, LEGO sets and action figures all require a commitment of both financial resources and time.It's like a man telling a stunning woman how beautiful she is. Now, genuinely praise her for some other ability, and she's listening hard! You don't need to share his love of Star Trek, but never (ever ever) diss Leonard Nimoy.Laughing at Sheldon's crazy quirks is fun so long as he's on TV, but not if you're dating him IRL.They’re great guys, but if you aren’t accustomed to being around them, here are a few things you can do to ensure success. his logging in long hours online gaming or his dressing up like Frodo every Halloween). Sure, the Star Wars posters or long days spent at Comic Con may seem silly to you, but everyone has unique interests that other people don’t “get.” And, really, how are a nerd’s interests any different from a non-nerdy guy’s obsession with Fantasy Football or baseball cards? While it’s totally fine if you don’t engage in his nerdy hobbies, it never hurts to occasionally take an interest. With its backbiting, battles, and sexual intrigue, this show is about as addictive as they come. Set in the future, a totalitarian leader selects a boy and girl from each of 12 districts and forces them to fight to the death, until only one stands.Instead, focus on his intelligence, faithfulness, and other great traits. Make sure he knows you recognize what makes him great! To belittle or make fun of his hobbies is to belittle him and sends the message that he isn’t good enough the way he is. Ask him why he loves his favorite sci-fi books or movies. Pay attention when nerd-dom hits national news — for example, just this week Disney announced that it purchased the entire Star Wars franchise (for a sum numbering in the billions) and will release more Star Wars movies. This is a gripping, well-acted movie with a very strong female main character. On a cold or snowy day, pop some popcorn (or grab some beers) and watch the old trilogy.