My roommates are dating
It's going really well--they are in love, and they make time to see each other and make it work.
They are currently on the East Coast, so Allie can meet Paul's family.
We used to text little minutia to each other, jokes and the things that make a friendship, but I don't even like doing that any more because it hurts me when she doesn't respond.
Basically, I'm not as important in her life any more, which is just something I have to deal with.I think you have to talk to her about the upcoming trip to make sure she's still on board.If she isn't, you need to give her an escape clause.I've been distancing myself somewhat subconsciously so as to try not to be hurt.I don't know if she hasn't noticed or doesn't care, but our relationship is clearly not what it was.