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"He said he was a great time in bed because it would be like Viagra."She declined and left, forever taking with her the knowledge that it's OK to stop a date if you can tell it's not going to work.

"As he was hobbling across the street with his cane before the date, I could have been very gentle and said, ' Thank you for coming, I'm so glad you made it out, but I don’t want to waste your time,'" says Newman.

Of course it's smart to use attractive photos, but they're going to see you anyway. It's all too easy to work yourself up over crafting the perfect answer when really, being single isn't some terrible affliction in need of explanation.

It's everyone's default status, after all. "I stopped asking people why they were single and assumed it was for valid reasons," she says. She'd respond with, ' I was married for 10 years, and we separated for totally valid reasons that I'll tell you about when I know you better." Her dates usually respected that boundary.

Once that tactic wasn't successful, she reevaluated and discovered the benefits of being authentic.

"It's exhausting to try to figure out what someone wants instead of being yourself, and really, you don't need to be a fit for everybody," she says."Something like, ' Hey, how are you doing? ' immediately gave the date a sense of familiarity and made the guys feel more at home with me," says Newman.

"A first date is really a meet and greet," says Newman.The outing ended an hour and a half later when he offered up sex."Apparently he'd gotten in a motorcycle accident at some point and injured his ' Johnson,' as he called it, so it was constantly erect," says Newman."We all know '6 feet' can be code for '5-foot-10' on dating profiles.I'm 5-foot-7, so I kept showing up and towering over my dates, which wasn't fun for me," she says. Nah, because that misrepresentation wasn't on her, and they made her feel confident. "If you're going to dinner, there needs to be enough material to have about a good hour and a half of conversation," says Newman. Prepare for awkward silences and escaping to the bathroom to send your friends a rushed "WTF do I do?! At first, Newman tried to determine what a guy wanted and conform to that.

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