Dating and relationships in college
Since fraternities and sororities do not occur much outside of the United States, this occurs, for the most part, only in the US.
Technology allows college students to take part in unique ways of finding more partners through social networking.
Before the 1920s, the primary reason for courting someone was to begin the path to marriage.
It functioned as a way for each party's family to gauge the social status of the other.
Take a look at the handout "Are You in an Unhealthy Relationship?
", review signs of verbal and emotional abuse in the guidelines for "Recognizing an Abusive Relationship", or visit web resources on Physical/Emotional Abuse.
These meetings were all strictly surveyed, typically by the woman's family, in order to protect the reputations of all involved and limit such possibilities as pregnancy.
This manner of courtship system was mostly used by the upper and middle classes from the eighteenth century through the Victorian period.
A young man might take a girl to a drive-in movie rather than spend an evening in the parlor with her family.
Sites such as Facebook, Twitter, and My Space allow students to make new friends, and potentially find their spouse.
Date rape, violence, and sexual harassment are also very common occurrences on college and university campuses.
How do you keep the lines of communication open so that you can maintain strong, honest, and respectful relationships?
Review the qualities of healthy relationships below: Conflict--in all relationships, there are times when communication breaks down; healthy relationships are able to clear up conflicts and to emerge stronger as a result Managing Conflict, Dealing with Confrontation, & Diffusing Anger Handout Print the handout above for more information on limit-setting.