Dating a man 13 years older
In my opinion, age has nothing to do with our relationship.In our twenty-five years together, we have never had a serious problem and we are still very happy."—Paolo, 64 "Pat is very special.I look at a lot of my friends who have girlfriends their age and younger and the problems they have strike me as ridiculous. I don't have time for that behavior—that's why I like mature women." "She was very beautiful and caring and we had similar interests.She offered me the opportunity to see another perspective on a lot of different issues. She made me realize how important I could be in making someone else happy.
I now have a better job and feel better about myself than ever before."—Neil, 35"I find that I'm attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. I enjoy sitting down to dinner with someone who has a level of conversation I can appreciate and enjoy. They have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. It's really a personality thing for me regarding what is attractive.Resolutely, Fred abandoned the "young woman trial period." He knew he liked older women and that was his standard. It's adventurous for both of us, because it's a whole new exciting journey.Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do." "My first relationship with an older woman—I was 20 and she was 36—lasted two and a half years.I think younger women are sometimes too focused on starting families and that is rarely an issue with older women. They are not just looking for guys who will be good fathers and providers. I enjoy a confident attitude and older women definitely have the upper hand in that area.""When I meet a woman over 30, she's usually very clear and focused.She knows what she wants in life and it makes being with her so much easier.